Halloween is just the beginning of several months of festivities that can wreak havoc in the routine that you have established for your children and your family. All the treats, changes in routine, visiting family and the added activities make it difficult for your child to adjust.
As we try to recreate the memories from our own childhood or meld the traditions from two families, it is easy to let those "things" take over our thoughts and planning and keep us from focusing on what is really important.
As you begin the important planning for the upcoming months, start by deciding what is really important to you. Next determine whether it is something that is appropriate for the ages of your children. If your children are very small, keep things simple and if they are older be sure to include them in the planning. You'll be creating memories for their lifetime!
Don't plan too many things or you and your children will become overwhelmed with all the activities. You may be disappointed too if things don't quite go as you expected or planned. Just spending quiet time together can be a very special memory as well! Try to keep your routines for meals, naps and bedtime as normal as possible and you and your children will enjoy a more pleasant holiday season.
Remember to keep worship as a high priority during these busy times. Your children will learn from you what Thanksgiving is all about when you go to church and thank God for all He has given you, including your family. Teaching your children about the true meaning of Christmas will help them realize that Christmas is not just about getting gifts. You can use these opportunities to help your children think about and care for others.
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